Denny and I are overseas loving China, however we also have our homesick days. I was very determined that we wouldn’t forget Thanksgiving, so Denny and I hosted Thanksgiving for the first time as a family. I am so glad we did! Below I laid out easy decorations, recipes, traditions and games.
Pre-planning:
Invitations were made for our co-workers. Leaves were hung from the windows with care.
Pine cones were scattered just for others to admire. The 13 pound turkey, baking pans, coconut milk, apple juice and mushroom soup were bought at Metro. Fresh potatoes, pumpkin, walnuts, and green beans were bought at the local market and prepared beforehand.
Our kitchen is tiny, so I pre-planned. I asked guests to bring a few items to help in the festivities: sweet potatoes, bacon-wrapped sausages, bread, salad, brownies, napkins and ice-cream.
Prepping:
Food
Potatoes were mashed and buttered.
- Recipe: boil 10 potatoes, 1 cup of Irish butter and pepper and salt to taste
Sweet potatoes were mashed, buttered, and stirred with coconut milk.
- Recipe: boil 10 sweet potatoes, 1 cup irish butter, 1/2 can of coconut milk, 1 teaspoon cinnamon
Green Beans were washed, french cut, cooked and baked. Find the dairy-free green bean casserole here.
Walnuts were crushed by my loving husband’s hands for the pie’s crust. Find the primal crust recipe here.
A pumpkin was baked and pumpkin filling was made. Find the dairy-free primal pumpkin filling recipe here.
Last minute apple cider was made (due to a guest being in the hospital, they are better now). I put apple juice and two teaspoons of cinnamon in a tea kettle. The intended apple cider recipe can be found here.
A turkey was loved, stuffed, tied and (as my husband likes to say) “elbow dropped” into our small oven. Learn to cook a turkey here.
The Story
Many Chinese people ask why do American’s celebrate Thanksgiving? Denny and I wanted to answer that question fully. This link explains in simple terms why we celebrate Thanksgiving in America. This other link goes further into detail the history. In summary, we take a day to honor God and thank Him for our many blessings.
Games and New Traditions
I prepped for two games and found a new tradition for my family.
- I am thankful for… We went around the room naming up to 5 things we were thankful for this year.
- Who am I? On little pieces of paper write out Thanksgiving theme words and then tape the word to each guest’s forehead without them seeing the word. Have the guest guess the word with yes or no questions. (Note, choose easier words if your playing with foreigners. They might not know the word “acorn”. )
- Jordan’s version of charades There are three rounds and two teams (every other person) to this game. Have each person write a word or phrase on a piece of paper. Each round ends when there are no more words in the hat/bowl.
- Round 1: (1 minute) Act the word out.
- Round 2: (15 seconds) Like Taoboo you say every word describing that word except the word.
- Round 3 (10 seconds) You say one word to describe the word on the paper.
The Party:
Five Things I learned from having Thanksgiving in China:
- That Thanksgiving is only an American holiday. The English don’t celebrate it.
- That Chinese people don’t eat that much. Many of the Chinese women didn’t eat all of the turkey on their plate. Also, surprisingly after the party I didn’t feel like I was in a food coma. Thank you guests, primal/paleo recipes, and the China culture.
- A host must have a pair of house slippers for each of their guest. Thankfully I learned this before the party.
- Keep the games simple. For the “Who am I?” game I should have used easier words. For the “Jordan’s version of Charades”: If your playing with foreigners I would recommend not having a word theme. The game turned out really funny. We were down to 8 people for the game and we had two pairs of the words”pilgrim, feast, turkey and Mayflower”. Let’s just say the game went quickly. =)
- The Blind Side and The Pursuit of Happiness are the perfect Thanksgiving movies that can remind us food, shelter, clothes, and love are what we need.
Happy Thanksgiving!