As a married couple, for certain there will be many everyday things that you have in common and that you’re both comfortable with, which is why you’re together in the first place. But when it comes to dreaming about tomorrow, you might surprise each other at how...
For Couples
How to Toil and Trust in Your Marriage
Last But Not Least This is bittersweet. Our last April Maura Marriage Series blog post from the book, "What Did You Expect?" Paul David Tripp has provided us with grace-filled truth and practical application of that truth. He has glorified God in all the ways He...
How to Protect Your Marriage
There are the most Chapters designated for Commitment #6: We will work to protect our marriage. That didn't just happened. I believe Paul Tripp intentionally gave this commitment the most attention out of all the commitments. Why? Because the only way we can truly...
6 Signs of a Coasting Marriage
Commitment 6: We will work to protect our marriage. There has been a reoccurring theme throughout Paul Tripp's "What Did You Expect?" book. He doesn't talk about marriages that have been destroyed by one, significant, unfaithful choice. He mentions marriages that have...
How to Deal With Unresolved Patterns
Commitment #5: We will deal with our differences with appreciation and grace. From last week's post about acknowledging our differences, it is equally important to then deal with them. Many times we develop unhealthy patterns to help ourselves through the discomfort...
One Expectation You Can Plan For
What if I were to tell you that you were not in control when you chose to marry your spouse? What if I told you that Someone else created your story and that your marriage is actually not by anything you did. Sometimes we think that we are way more powerful then we...
Starting From the Bottom
Commitment 4: We will commit to building a relationship of love. Here is a quote to let soak deeply into your heart and mind: "Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It...
Restoring What Is Broken
Trust. We have all experienced the brokenness and the strength of a relationship when there is trust or a lack of. Trust can be easily taken for granted and is a lot harder to build then we have ever thought. When we are in the early years of marriage, our spouse is...
Your Bond of Trust
Commitment 3: We will work together to build a sturdy bond of trust. When we think about trust and the ways it can be broken there are several things that come to mind. There is unfaithfulness happening, or signs of physical abuse, or a major verbal blow up occurred....
Planting the Good Stuff
Have you ever just got done pulling weeds out of your garden to then walk out only a couple days later to even more weeds? One minute you are relishing in how clean your garden looks after all the effort and hard physical labor you put into it and the next minute you...